A desperately sad look at two men whose determination to rebel against their heritage and succeed in their artform has rendered them unable to communicate. Compelling stuff, though.
Tell Them Who You Are (2005)
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Reviews Counted:63
Fresh:55
Rotten:8
Average Rating:7.5/10
Consensus: The dysfunctional interaction between director and subject is fascinating, poignant, and revealing of both men and of father-son relationships in general.
Rated: 15 [See Full Rating] for language and some sexual images
Runtime: 1 hr 35 mins
Genre: Education/General Interest
Theatrical Release:02-06-2006
Synopsis: The work of acclaimed cinematographer Haskell Wexler has delighted cinema-goers for the greater part of his astonishing life. Two Oscars, for WHO'S AFRAID OF VIRGINIA WOLF and BOUND FOR GLORY, are... The work of acclaimed cinematographer Haskell Wexler has delighted cinema-goers for the greater part of his astonishing life. Two Oscars, for WHO'S AFRAID OF VIRGINIA WOLF and BOUND FOR GLORY, are just the tip of the iceberg, for Haskell has worked with many of the all-time greats in the business. Some of these figures--most notably, Milos Foreman and George Lucas--are featured in this documentary, which is directed by his son, Mark Wexler. Although most are generous with their praise, it becomes clear that Haskell is a rambunctious, obstinate character whose interactions with Mark during the filmmaking process offer the greatest insight into his personality. Despite being 82-years-old at the time of shooting, Haskell still retains all his critical faculties, and loves to berate his son, whose right-wing political leanings are a constant source of chagrin for his liberal father. Mark's agility as a director allows him to steer the film through wildly different subject matter, such as Haskell's work as a director on MEDIUM COOL; his firing from prominent features such as ONE FLEW OVER THE CUCKOO'S NEST (at the behest of the FBI according to Haskell--a claim that is refuted by everyone else involved); and Mark's own boisterous relationship with his dad. As endlessly fascinating anecdotes pour from the screen, this father and son laugh, cry, argue, and fight, then indulge in bizarre, strained attempts at bonding which include going on a peace protest together, interviewing Jane Fonda and Julia Roberts, and pointing cameras at one other. An unflinching, sometimes painfully personal film, TELL THEM WHO YOU ARE is an anomalous foray into the world of documentary filmmaking. [More]
Starring: Haskell Wexler, Mark Wexler, Milos Forman, George Lucas
Starring: Haskell Wexler, Mark Wexler, Milos Forman, George Lucas, Jane Fonda, Julia Roberts, Michael Douglas, Conrad Hall, Dennis Hopper
Director: Mark Wexler
Director: Mark Wexler
Producer: Mark Wexler
Studio: ThinkFilm
Reviews for Tell Them Who You Are
With dad calling junior's filmmaking skills into question at every turn, this is a fascinating blend of fact and friction.
Despite a slightly limp finale, this is fascinating stuff and a revelatory experience for filmmaker, subject and, well, anyone with a family.
It's a welcome, honest assessment of a powerful and industry-connected father and his just-wants- to-be-himself son.
One of the most clear-eyed and intimate Hollywood portraits ever filmed.
Tell Them Who You Are achieves greatness in its climax, which goes beyond the many faces Haskell Wexler shows the world and reveals yet another side, one that seems to surprise even him.
It works as a portrait of a father-son relationship that’s awkward, volatile, uneven and always painfully real.
A compelling portrait of a fascinating man, full of deep love for cinema and political causes, yet unable to express this feeling to his own flesh-and-blood.
A fascinating glimpse of family love and rivalry, if not a deep-digging documentary.
What makes this movie deeply fascinating is the fight Haskell wages. As the semi-willing subject of this movie, he's determined to gain the upper hand or, at least, come out somewhat sympathetic.
This poignant documentary rises above the usual uncritical retrospective in that its star is an unbending talent, self-destructively flawed.
Mark Wexler's film is the latest success in the blooming genre of therapeutic, first-person, digital essay films exploring the filmmaker's personal life.
Anyone who has been either a parent or a child will understand the push-me- pull-you, love-and-hate dynamic the film captures, and the attempt at reconciliation that it represents.
Despite merits, this self-reflexive docu about the Wexlers, pere et fils, suffers from a streak of sentimentality and therapeutic sensibility
Not just a behind-the-scenes history chapter but an insightful father-son comedy-drama.
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